For Teresa, that something meant overcoming her fear of going
under the knife ... to save the life of her boyfriend of over twenty
years and acrobatic partner, stunt pilot Gene Soucy.
You see, Gene needed a kidney transplant or he was going to die.
So, how far would you be willing to go to save someone you loved?
What
if it meant doing something you feared doing, could you still go
through with it? More often than not, we're left standing on the
sidelines watching helplessly as our loved ones get sick and grow
steadily worse. But for Teresa, standing by and watching wasn't an
option. The moment Gene got sick, Teresa began to look for answers.
He needed a kidney transplant, so she began to research what it
entailed.
Teresa's story of love began years before and I learned of it the
day I arrived at Colonel James Jabara Airport to interview pilots at
the Festival of Flight in Wichita, Kansas. As I arrived at the
airport, I made my way towards hangar number seven. Nervous about
what was going to take place but at the same moment I was about to
burst with excitement. My job was to interview stunt pilot Gene
Soucy and wingwalker Teresa Stokes. This was my first interview
(ever); I'd done some research on the two but was more concerned
with who these two talented people were, outside of flying.
The group I was with were a few of the first to arrive at the
hanger. I'd been around planes and pilots before, but as I walked
through the enormous door I was overwhelmed. To my shock, twelve
planes were packed inside the hanger. Their shapes, sizes and colors
were magnificent.
The
first plane that caught my attention was Maufred Radius's glider,
painted a slick white. Four larger planes, all painted alike with
black and white checkered noses belonged to the Aeroshell Aerobatic
Team. A wolf painted on each side of a plane belonged to Ji "Fang"
Maroney. Two flashy red and black planes were those of the "Sons of
Legends" team, Kyle Franklin and Matt Younkin.
Finally, as I made my way around the planes, I found the one I
was looking for, "The Showcat," belonging to the one and only Gene
Soucy - Mr. Airshow and wingwalker Teresa Stokes. "The Showcat" was
painted elaborate oranges, yellows and reds. Its wonderful artwork
design was created by Teresa. But to my amazement, one would have
thought the wings of this plane would be larger. After all, someone
walked on them. I began to wonder just how it was possible for
someone to walk on its wings.
As
I was watching all the hustle and bustle in the hanger, I saw Gene
Soucy, and he was walking in my direction. A much taller than I,
dark glasses and rich brown hair, came right up to me and said, "How
are you doing, today?" I was in shock, for some reason I was under
the impression that the pilots wouldn't be very personable. Boy, was
I wrong; Gene is one of the nicest, most polite men I had met in a
long time. His love for life, his personality makes him very
likable, and with that huge smile, showing off his pearly whites I
couldn't help but smile right along with him.
After our introductions, I didn't interview him by no means ...
we talked ... in fact, in every interview went as easily as this
one, everyone would want to be a journalist. We simply talked ...
about anything and everything ... as I spoke to him, it was as if
I'd known him my whole life. For a brief time, we talked about the
planes and about him being a pilot. I asked him what it was like
having someone walk on the wings of his plane.
He
looked at me with a brilliant smile, chuckled a couple of times
before saying in a deep but light-hearted tone: "It's unreal ... at
times, I can hardly believe it myself ... her up there, walking
around on the wings."
As a mother, I would think that traveling with an air show you'd
miss your family, right? But when I asked Gene if he missed being
home and if it was hard to always travel, after all they do about 22
shows a season, that's about about ashow every weekend somewhere
different. Gene and Teresa both have been around airplanes their
entire lives. They do shows everywhere in the US and Canada.
Once again, as I looked up at him, I got that great smile and
show of teeth. His answer was quick. He pondered only for a moment,
then he spoke in a hearty tone, as he looked around the hanger,
taking it all in. "You know, this is my family. We've become a
family. I'm home on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, but I can't wait for
the call of where we are going that Thursday."
As I stood there, looking at all the pilots and crews, I noticed
something I'd missed. They were a family, helping each other move
the planes around, talking and laughing. It makes sense when you're
around the same bunch of people that they would become family. What
a life ... home for two days and out flying, traveling the rest of
the time.
But
the, I wondered something ... what did this man do when he wasn't
out flying? So, being a somewhat nosey person, I asked. And I could
hardly believe it ... NASCAR. He'd be racing, or taking his classics
to car shows. But NASCAR, no offence but my husband watches it and
I'm thinking, flying in the air wherever you want or driving in a
circle very, very, very fast. So, without thinking, I began to laugh
and said, what, they aren't alike or similar. Of course, there I go
speaking before I think. He almost doubled over with laughter. Okay,
I'm not going to tell you his answer, which is more than obvious.
I'm pretty sure you can figure it out, even if you don't know a
thing about flying or NASCAR. So, there I am with this
happy-go-lucky guy laughing at me, but I can't blame him for my
stupid comment. After all, my mother always said I was quick to ask
before I thought.
As I said, Gene is a very personable man who is very talented and
gifted and might I add lucky. Teresa and Gene have been dating for
over twenty years. They were both pilots before they met, and after
they started dating, Gene needed an assistant, so he asked Teresa if
she wouldn't mind filling in until he found someone. She said she
would. Well, he must not have found an assistant because she's still
filling in. According to her, he liked what she did, walking on the
wings, so he kept her around for awhile. Now, isn't that the
beginning of a fairy tale, and it gets even better. But we'll get to
that a little later ...
As for Teresa, who is the most adorable women I've ever met, her
flowing blonde hair glistened in the sun, as she helped get the
plane ready. Her small frame makes you wonder just how she stays on
that plane. She's probably a bit over five feet. I'm not exactly
sure, since I didn't ask (that would have been rude, I felt).
Teresa talked to me as she readied the plane. "This is a job you
can be passionate about. This is like a hobby, an interest, more
than a job. How did I get so lucky to be paid for having fun?"
Teresa and Gene have been a couple for over twenty years
They have a lot in common. Besides her interest in aviation,
Teresa also owns four classic cars from the 40s, 50s and 60s. Teresa
is one of five girls. Mom had no boys.
Hmmm ... now, we've come full circle ... to Teresa researching a
solution to Gene's need for a kidney transplant. Here's what Teresa
discovered: for Gene to have an operation, a donor would have to be
found. With a long list of people waiting for transplants, family
members and friends are usually asked to be tested to see if they'd
be a match. The blood types and tissue must match. There are two
reasons for someone to donate. First, we only use 1/6 of each one or
if you have two kidneys, 1/3 of one kidney is used. Second, the new
technique, lapriscopic, has a fast recovery rate, no pain, no scars.
Teresa was a perfect match for Gene.
However, this meant overcoming a fear. Teresa describes herself
as a "chicken." Remember, she's afraid of motorcycles, snow skiing,
medical operations and plastic surgery. Her biggest fear was going
under the knife in the operating room. When asked why she did it, a
puzzled (almost dumbfounded) look crossed over her face, as if the
answer was obvious. "Because I love him ... that's why," she replied
with love and emotion. "The giver gets a gift out of it, too. And
it's a good feeling."
Unfortunately, most hospitals are still doing it the
old-fashioned way, which is much more physically invasive and
doesn't have that great of a success rate. The recovery is much
harder for both the donor and the recipient. But don't lose heart
...
If you can't find a hospital in your area that performs
lapriscopic, keep hunting. That's what Teresa did and she found The
University of Maryland to perform the technique, which meant zero
change in lifestyle (after the surgery). Would you believe that
Teresa was out climbing around on the wing of a plane shortly after
the surgery? And for Gene and many others, this new technique for
kidney transplants gives them a whole new world of hope and
possibilities.
Gene Soucy and Teresa Stokes have more information on their web
site concerning this new technique: genesoucy.com.
Also, for more research on lapriscopic transplants, go to umm.edu/transplant.